Is sam being cruel to amelia?

[the truth]

or is he genuinely confused , is he being a game player, does she really have such strong feelings for him...Why do they never touch or kiss or make eye contact? will she really be hurt and is she as naive she she seems to appear? or is she too playing the game?

[RileyH]

I have no idea but it's uncomfortable to watch :umm2:

[JayGreen]

I personally think he is a little wind up merchant. I dont think hes a very nice person in general and i think he needs to tell her what his intentions are instead of pulling faces at Jemma.

[the truth]

I have no idea but it's uncomfortable to watch :umm2:

absolutely

[jaxie]

I don't think he's being very fair to her. He back off a bit then comes out with something like she's perfect which is really sending her mixed messages. Then he is all over Jemma.

[AnnieK]

He has been flirting but she has read it differently.to how it was playing out in his head. He needs to tell her how he truly feels....I.think he.may like to take her out but she is thinking dsr further ahead.

[Epic.]

Not the biggest fan of the girl but I really do feel so sorry for her in how she's getting straddled along like this like a mug

[joeysteele]

No,not in my view.

[Withano]

Sam had a gameplan to not get in a showmance cos he knows how annoying they are. I dont think he realises that whatever hes doing is worse.

[the truth]

Sam had a gameplan to not get in a showmance cos he knows how annoying they are. I dont think he realises that whatever hes doing is worse.

Hes having a no show showmance....with a genuine girl

[rusticgal]

Amelia is so boring...she seems a nice enough girl but she's trying too hard to be the 'good girl'...sweet innocent gullible person. She came in pretty feisty and has turned into a hopeless bore. Nothing interesting about her at all.
Sam is equally boring. He has no interest in Amelia but allowing her to think there is hope in a possible relationship. He needs to tell her straight..he is making a fool out of her and himself....they are both making themselves look stupid and weak.

[rionablue]

or is he genuinely confused , is he being a game player, does she really have such strong feelings for him...Why do they never touch or kiss or make eye contact? will she really be hurt and is she as naive she she seems to appear? or is she too playing the game?

I would rather watch those two having their banter than the other two in the bedroom trying to have sex. jesus could they not wait another few days :shrug:

[the truth]

I would rather watch those two having their banter than the other two in the bedroom trying to have sex. jesus could they not wait another few days :shrug:

shes on heat ....hes shown restraint considering he has masses of testosterone and a 9 incher

[rusticgal]

I would rather watch those two having their banter than the other two in the bedroom trying to have sex. jesus could they not wait another few days :shrug:

Banter...what banter?..they are both feeding their own egos. Amelia constantly looking for compliments and Sam feeding her them to look good for himself.
It's going no where...and it's boring and fake.
At least Sarah and Chad have their ups and downs...argue then make up...at least it seems more real.

[supertv247]

In the words of Casey's mum, He's mugging you off darling

He's being so cruel to her, for example - tonight she mentioned her family, and he seemed freaked out about it in the DR (but didn't say anything to her face) and then today there's a clip of him making her a cute dinner...? Either he SERIOUSLY is confused about his feelings, or he's just an idiot. And I think he's the latter, stringing her along, then turning around to say stuff as if he's done nothing and has no idea why she's being like that. He's really annoying me

[the truth]

Banter...what banter?..they are both feeding their own egos. Amelia constantly looking for compliments and Sam feeding her them to look good for himself.
It's going no where...and it's boring and fake.
At least Sarah and Chad have their ups and downs...argue then make up...at least it seems more real.

hagreed

[jet]

All he has ever said to Amelia is that he wants to take her out for dinner, he has never said anything about getting into a relationship with her. He obviously likes her and is complimentary to her, but says he has stuff to sort out on the outside. Amelia is the one pushing it, and I think he doesn't want to embarrass her on national TV by contradicting her. He could have gotten into a showmance with her for airtime then dropped her when they got out, but he didn't, and he's still being criticised. He has been quite the gentleman compared to the usual BS that goes on with showmances every season.

Many of the ones criticising him about Amelia are cheering on the cheating Sarah, and/or Chad who went for Amelia first before Sarah, who he knew had a boyfriend outside. But Sam is awful and they are great? The hypocrisy is staggering.

[jet]

Banter...what banter?..they are both feeding their own egos. Amelia constantly looking for compliments and Sam feeding her them to look good for himself.
It's going no where...and it's boring and fake.
At least Sarah and Chad have their ups and downs...argue then make up...at least it seems more real.

You are kidding. Their showmance is all scripted by Sarah and Chad plays along not knowing what is going on most of the time. She has even told him on camera what their next move should be.

[the truth]

You are kidding. Their showmance is all scripted by Sarah and Chad plays along not knowing what is going on most of the time. She has even told him on camera what their next move should be.

I actually dont think its a game for her. she is clearly a manipulative psycho all the time in every day life

[bots]

i could be wrong, but i think they are both playing a game. She is asking questions to put him on the spot and feel uncomfortable, and he is lying his head off about his feelings toward her.

[Kazanne]

Sam is doing more or less what Sarah did,he has someone on the outside waiting for him,but because he plays the cheeky chappie role he gets away with it, he pretends he is 'joking' about Chad and Sarah when he is having his silly little digs but there is always that sly smirk to accompany it . Sam is the biggest player in there he just gets away with it as people think he is 'cute' bloody weasel.

[Kazanne]

I would rather watch those two having their banter than the other two in the bedroom trying to have sex. jesus could they not wait another few days :shrug:

They are waiting,till Friday:hee:

[jaxie]

All he has ever said to Amelia is that he wants to take her out for dinner, he has never said anything about getting into a relationship with her. He obviously likes her and is complimentary to her, but says he has stuff to sort out on the outside. Amelia is the one pushing it, and I think he doesn't want to embarrass her on national TV by contradicting her. He could have gotten into a showmance with her for airtime then dropped her when they got out, but he didn't, and he's still being criticised. He has been quite the gentleman compared to the usual BS that goes on with showmances every season.

Many of the ones criticising him about Amelia are cheering on the cheating Sarah, and/or Chad who went for Amelia first before Sarah, who he knew had a boyfriend outside. But Sam is awful and they are great? The hypocrisy is staggering.

I'm deffo not cheering on anything about Sarah. I think she is unhinged and Chad is insane to be involved with her. I think the problem with Sam is the mixed messages. He's very gushing and complimentary to Amelia's face but then when he talks to Jemma or in the diary room he is more or less saying he doesn't want to date her. I don't think he's making that clear to her and he needs to.

[jet]

I'm deffo not cheering on anything about Sarah. I think she is unhinged and Chad is insane to be involved with her. I think the problem with Sam is the mixed messages. He's very gushing and complimentary to Amelia's face but then when he talks to Jemma or in the diary room he is more or less saying he doesn't want to date her. I don't think he's making that clear to her and he needs to.

IMO he obviously likes her and was just trying to boost her as it seems she is always putting herself down. His body language (when she was talking about him meeting her parents he was looking embarrassed and staring at the ground) should tell her she is jumping the gun. She seems rather clueless. Or maybe she knows what she is doing and is playing him as some have suggested. :hee:
Whatever, he isn't deliberately being cruel and compared to the cheating and antics by HM's over the years he's being extremely tame. He's single right now and enjoyed flirting with her.
Should he put her straight at this stage? If it were me I'd wait the few days left and sort it with her when we got out. What would be the point of embarrassing her in public?
It'll be interesting to hear what they have to say about it in their interviews.

[chuff me dizzy]

He needs to grow a pair and tell the dippy bird who's head is half way to the alter that its a no go !

[Niamh.]

Sam had a gameplan to not get in a showmance cos he knows how annoying they are. I dont think he realises that whatever hes doing is worse.

Yeah, I mean I'm not much of an Amelia fan but it'll be so embarrassing for her to hear what he's been saying in the diary room

[Northern Monkey]

I think she actually likes him and he's not being totally honest with her.They're in some kind of weird friendzone 'will they won't they' situation and it's down to him being a wet flannel and not being honest with her.He is obviously hoping to get back with his ex when he gets out but keeping her as backup just incase his ex ain't interested.She deserves better imo.

[jet]

I think she actually likes him and he's not being totally honest with her.They're in some kind of weird friendzone 'will they won't they' situation and it's down to him being a wet flannel and not being honest with her.He is obviously hoping to get back with his ex when he gets out but keeping her as backup just incase his ex ain't interested.She deserves better imo.

That's just your opinion, which you are entitled to, or did he tell you this himself? :smug:

[Kazanne]

That's just your opinion, which you are entitled to, or did he tell you this himself? :smug:

No but Tiffany(his long term squeeze) has said they made a pact to get back together again after the show

[Northern Monkey]

That's just your opinion, which you are entitled to, or did he tell you this himself? :smug:

What could "I've got stuff to sort out with my ex when i get out" possibly mean if not a chance to get back with her?
If he wasn't bothered then he'd have no baggage to hold him back.

[odd sock]

I don't think he is leading her on, she is just reading to much into his interest at this stage. He clearly stated he would never start anything in the house but would like to take her out to dinner when they leave, who knows it could lead to romance or just stay at friendship.

[Kazanne]

I don't think he is leading her on, she is just reading to much into his interest at this stage. He clearly stated he would never start anything in the house but would like to take her out to dinner when they leave, who knows it could lead to romance or just stay at friendship.

Yeah,right :laugh::laugh:

[Ellen]

He's a snake, wouldn't trust him as far as i could throw him!

[jet]

What could "I've got stuff to sort out with my ex when i get out" possibly mean if not a chance to get back with her?
If he wasn't bothered then he'd have no baggage to hold him back.

I know that, but you said he was keeping Amelia on backup it case the ex didn't take him back.
How do you know the 'stuff to sort out' isn't breaking up with her for good? How do you know he's thinking 'I'll keep Amelia as back up'? You don't. It's just your opinion.

[jet]

I don't think he is leading her on, she is just reading to much into his interest at this stage. He clearly stated he would never start anything in the house but would like to take her out to dinner when they leave, who knows it could lead to romance or just stay at friendship.

Exactly. People are reading stuff into their relationship that was never there, a bit like Amelia herself.
But really the lashing into Sam is gaining momentum all of a sudden because he is now 2nd fave and they feel their fave is threatened. So predictable. If he drops down the next 2nd fave will get a scalding. It par for the course. :laugh:

[Kazanne]

I know that, but you said he was keeping Amelia on backup it case the ex didn't take him back.
How do you know the 'stuff to sort out' isn't breaking up with her for good? How do you know he's thinking 'I'll keep Amelia as back up'? You don't. It's just your opinion.

The same as you all know what Chad is thinking :laugh:

[MrWong]

Sam is doing more or less what Sarah did,he has someone on the outside waiting for him,but because he plays the cheeky chappie role he gets away with it, he pretends he is 'joking' about Chad and Sarah when he is having his silly little digs but there is always that sly smirk to accompany it . Sam is the biggest player in there he just gets away with it as people think he is 'cute' bloody weasel.

Sam and Tiff are on a break. It's mutual.

Sarah and her fella weren't.

Sam hasn't kissed Amelia.

Sarah kissed Chad, which means she's a cheat.

[jet]

No but Tiffany(his long term squeeze) has said they made a pact to get back together again after the show

My daughter, who is a huge fan of the Chelsea show says that isn't true. I've just asked her. :laugh:

Who is right? Link?

[jet]

The same as you all know what Chad is thinking :laugh:

Chad thinks? When he blows his nose sawdust flies out. :joker:

[MrWong]

I'm deffo not cheering on anything about Sarah. I think she is unhinged and Chad is insane to be involved with her. I think the problem with Sam is the mixed messages. He's very gushing and complimentary to Amelia's face but then when he talks to Jemma or in the diary room he is more or less saying he doesn't want to date her. I don't think he's making that clear to her and he needs to.

This is how I see it too.

[jet]

Sam and Tiff are on a break. It's mutual.

Sarah and her fella weren't.

Sam hasn't kissed Amelia.

Sarah kissed Chad, which means she's a cheat.

Yep. Yet it seems what Sam is doing is worse, yes, that is actually being said. :joker:

[Kazanne]

When asked if they were still in a relationship, Lucy Watson’s sister continued: "We are together at the moment, but we’ve scheduled in a break."
The ‘split’ will come in after their planned romantic holiday – but the on-off couple were adamant this wasn’t the end of the relationship.
"I want to marry Tiff, I know I’m going to have kids with her. I’m just very aware of how young I am," Sam explained.

http://www.ok.co.uk/celebrity-news/1085802/made-in-chelsea-sam-thompson-tiffany-watson-split-break-relationship-romantic-holiday-ibiza

There are plenty of other links about him cheating.

[Kazanne]

Yep. Yet it seems what Sam is doing is worse, yes, that is actually being said. :joker:

i didn't say it was worse did I ? i said he is more or less doing the same but it's ok for him as he is the cheeky chappie.

[Kazanne]

Chad thinks? When he blows his nose sawdust flies out. :joker:

Maybe so but still better than the crap that comes from Sams mouth:hee:

[Miranda123]

In the words of Casey's mum, He's mugging you off darling

He's being so cruel to her, for example - tonight she mentioned her family, and he seemed freaked out about it in the DR (but didn't say anything to her face) and then today there's a clip of him making her a cute dinner...? Either he SERIOUSLY is confused about his feelings, or he's just an idiot. And I think he's the latter, stringing her along, then turning around to say stuff as if he's done nothing and has no idea why she's being like that. He's really annoying me

The girl thinks him mentioning a dinner date means a lifelong commitment ??

She needs to get a grip and realise that Sam doesnt fancy her anymore, if he ever did, anyway she will see all he said now that she is back at the hotel with her Mum and Dad, they will tell her everything and she will understand before she sees Sam again tomorrow night at the final

[Miranda123]

When asked if they were still in a relationship, Lucy Watson’s sister continued: "We are together at the moment, but we’ve scheduled in a break."
The ‘split’ will come in after their planned romantic holiday – but the on-off couple were adamant this wasn’t the end of the relationship.
"I want to marry Tiff, I know I’m going to have kids with her. I’m just very aware of how young I am," Sam explained.

http://www.ok.co.uk/celebrity-news/1085802/made-in-chelsea-sam-thompson-tiffany-watson-split-break-relationship-romantic-holiday-ibiza

There are plenty of other links about him cheating.

Why do girls fall for that ****, "Im very young, lets take a break"

If a guy said that to me, then I would tell him he really is too young and I will go find myself a mature man who doesnt keep asking for time off to shag other women, which is basically what they want

Lets face it, of all the guys in there, it is Chad who needs some space!!

[jet]

i didn't say it was worse did I ? i said he is more or less doing the same but it's ok for him as he is the cheeky chappie.

No you weren't one of those who are saying that.
But it's not more or less the same thing at all. Sam's not cheating, he's not kissing, he's not having sex (or whatever it is Sarah and Chad are doing in bed), he's not promising anything at all except a dinner.

[jet]

When asked if they were still in a relationship, Lucy Watson’s sister continued: "We are together at the moment, but we’ve scheduled in a break."
The ‘split’ will come in after their planned romantic holiday – but the on-off couple were adamant this wasn’t the end of the relationship.
"I want to marry Tiff, I know I’m going to have kids with her. I’m just very aware of how young I am," Sam explained.

http://www.ok.co.uk/celebrity-news/1085802/made-in-chelsea-sam-thompson-tiffany-watson-split-break-relationship-romantic-holiday-ibiza

There are plenty of other links about him cheating.

I don't see anything there about her saying they made a pact to get back together after CBB? That's quite a good article which confirms what he has said.

[jet]

Maybe so but still better than the crap that comes from Sams mouth:hee:

Now Kaz, you would get bored of Chad in a week. Admit it! :laugh:

[ebandit]

...both playing a game.......divvunt worry none...............

Mark L

[Kazanne]

maybe Amelia wasn't his first choice,lol

Sam revealed that he had a crush on Real Housewives of Beverly Hills star Brandi Glanville, after the two got to know each other in the house.
Confiding to Big Brother in the diary room, the 25 year old said: “Brandi’s a *******ing legend man! Brandi is the girl, she’s sexy…I’ve got a massive crush on her.

[jet]

maybe Amelia wasn't his first choice,lol

Sam revealed that he had a crush on Real Housewives of Beverly Hills star Brandi Glanville, after the two got to know each other in the house.
Confiding to Big Brother in the diary room, the 25 year old said: “Brandi’s a *******ing legend man! Brandi is the girl, she’s sexy…I’ve got a massive crush on her.

Amelia was Chad's first choice, we know that FOR SURE :hee: he wanted a bit of Marissa then settled on Sarah. Chad would showmance his granny to get airtime. :laugh:

[Kazanne]

Amelia was Chad's first choice, we know that FOR SURE :hee: he wanted a bit of Marissa then settled on Sarah. Chad would showmance his granny to get airtime. :laugh:

Why are you turning this on Chad? I know he liked Amelia,hence the smilie ! never saw him make a play for Marissa ,nothing wrong with a man liking women, Chad backed off from Amelia as she was playing around saying she didnt know if he liked her so he backed off,so what:shrug:Sarah said Chad liked her from the first night ,but nice deflection the post was about SAM,poor Amelia being second choice for two of the males.:wavey:

[jet]

Why are you turning this on Chad? I know he liked Amelia,hence the smilie ! never saw him make a play for Marissa ,nothing wrong with a man liking women, Chad backed off from Amelia as she was playing around saying she didnt know if he liked her so he backed off,so what:shrug:Sarah said Chad liked her from the first night ,but nice deflection the post was about SAM,poor Amelia being second choice for two of the males.:wavey:

Because you are just reaching now implying Amelia wasn't Sam's first choice. Lots of young guys have crushes on older women, it doesn't mean he wants to be with her. Whereas Amelia was definitely Chad's first choice. :shrug:

[Kazanne]

Because you are just reaching now implying Amelia wasn't Sam's first choice. Lots of young guys have crushes on older women, it doesn't mean he wants to be with her. Whereas Amelia was definitely Chad's first choice. :shrug:

How is it reaching when he has said it himself:shrug: Oh i forgot it's cheeky sam so it's fine:smug:

[RileyH]

can't wait for sam vs amelia tonight x

[MrWong]

How is it reaching when he has said it himself:shrug: Oh i forgot it's cheeky sam so it's fine:smug:

He said it but he didn't act on it.

[MrWong]

Why are you turning this on Chad? I know he liked Amelia,hence the smilie ! never saw him make a play for Marissa ,nothing wrong with a man liking women, Chad backed off from Amelia as she was playing around saying she didnt know if he liked her so he backed off,so what:shrug:Sarah said Chad liked her from the first night ,but nice deflection the post was about SAM,poor Amelia being second choice for two of the males.:wavey:

Chad tried it with Marissa. They were both in the garden. Everyone else was in the bedrooms. Paul interrupted them when he went outside to tell them that BB won't turn off the bedroom light until everyone's in bed. Chad grumbled because he'd been cockblocked.

[Daffodil]

Amelia is terribly naive. The boy she fancies shares a bed with a girl who oozes lusty sex and she is talking about introducing him to her parents. She is very Jane Austen when all the poor boy wants is a warm cuddle from Jemma. It makes me squirm to see Amelia being so blind to the truth.

[Ellen]

She has said she feels like a spare when her & Sam are with Jemma so i think she isnt that daft. Would not surprise me if she is just playing along with it.

I take it back about Amelia, apparently she did believe all he said to her and wasnt playing along with it. Brandi tells her otherwise

[RileyH]

Amelia coming for ha sympathy win?