[Redway]

Nicer way of describing ESTJs: executive. They can be nice people when they’re healthy but as a set type as a whole they’re known for being quite toxic. It’s not always but it’s not exactly a rare thing for them to be seen as a bit inherently unlikeable or annoy people with how much they gossip on people. And someone who takes your personal dignity out of your hands re. stuff you probably don’t even want them to know in the first place and Chinese-whispers it (maybe with some by-the-book logical justification, maybe not) is gonna piss you off sooner or later. Not all ESTJs are like that but the ones who are the stereotypical Reece-from-Recess snitches and gossipers are just another level of poison. People get together and talk and I get that; I really do. But there’s a way to do it without putting someone’s business or what you think is their business on blast and try and justify it by a certain type of ratty logic that forms this integral part of your personality, which means it just keeps happening and people who find them charming keep enabling them. If they’re not careful they’re the sort of people who are on an express-way to eternal condemnation by Dr Ramani (anti-narcissism buff).