[Redway]

60/40 in favour of the man. Not necessarily for chivalrous reasons but for the fact that women typically do a lot more as regards childcare/housekeeping. Assuming a certain leadership in a financial sense only makes sense when women seem to do more in general without monetary reward. That’s all. It doesn’t have to be done on the basis of misogyny, patriarchal undertones or outdated chivalry. It’s just for the sake of levelling up overall. That’s how you achieve a 50/50 balance.

For those reasons I wouldn’t want to be with a woman richer than myself but that’s just me.

[Niamh.]

Originally Posted by Redway

60/40 in favour of the man. Not necessarily for chivalrous reasons but for the fact that women typically do a lot more as regards childcare/housekeeping. Assuming a certain leadership in a financial sense only makes sense when women seem to do more in general without monetary reward. That’s all. It doesn’t have to be done on the basis of misogyny, patriarchal undertones or outdated chivalry. It’s just for the sake of levelling up overall. That’s how you achieve a 50/50 balance.

For those reasons I wouldn’t want to be with a woman richer than myself but that’s just me.

Speak for yourself, I earn as much as my husband and we both contribute to our house and our children as much as each other tyvm

[Livia]

Like a lot of people on here we have out own accounts and a joint one we both pay into where all out direct debits live. I have always been proud to stand my round and would never expect a man to pay for me.

[ThomasC]

Originally Posted by Cherie

Smithy are you listening?

Seriously though, he's too gay for me. I don't mean that in a degratory way, but I like straight acting men

Originally Posted by Cherie

I wouldn't be able to live with someone like that, I worked with a girl and she lived with her b/f and when they went food shopping they split the food as to what would be eaten, like wtf how does that work

even when I shared a house we had a mutual kitty for weekly essentials so it wasn't like one person buying the binbags

Oh god, that is ridiculous.

When I was travelling in Australia I spent a few months with a lad like that. He was so ridiculously frugal it wound me up something rotten.

Originally Posted by Smithy

I’ll send him my PO Box Address

Originally Posted by michael21

That his fav position