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View Poll Results: Should parents be allowed to let their kids clutter up ’spoons/your local?
Wetherspoons/cozy gastro. pubs, maybe. But definitely not old men’s pubs 3 27.27%
Wetherspoons/cozy gastro. pubs, maybe. But definitely not old men’s pubs
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It depends massively how capable they are of being well-behaved/relatively quiet 1 9.09%
It depends massively how capable they are of being well-behaved/relatively quiet
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I wouldn’t be rolling a 3-year-old in but, say, 10+, fair enough 0 0%
I wouldn’t be rolling a 3-year-old in but, say, 10+, fair enough
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No. I hate kids (at least in pubs). Pubs are for adults and grown-up teenagers 3 27.27%
No. I hate kids (at least in pubs). Pubs are for adults and grown-up teenagers
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Mixed/other/depends 4 36.36%
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Everyone’s entitled to a social life (and by every now and again I presume you mean every weekend or multiple times a week for at least the slight majority of people when money’s not an object, because otherwise what the hell?) but pubs aren’t third-grade nurseries, nor is it particularly appropriate for kids to be where alcohol and drunkards are. A pub garden’s okay if they have the space.
Then go to a Pub where kids aren't allowed if it bothers you so much! We used to bring our son to the Pub sometimes to watch matches etc with us too when he was younger, he was perfectly capable of sitting down and watching the TV
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Then go to a Pub where kids aren't allowed if it bothers you so much! We used to bring our son to the Pub sometimes to watch matches etc with us too when he was younger, he was perfectly capable of sitting down and watching the TV
And, hey, I’m sure your son was a lovely little lamb when he was that age. It’s a bit different when they’re well-behaved, I’ll admit.
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And, hey, I’m sure your son was a lovely little lamb when he was that age. It’s a bit different when they’re well-behaved, I’ll admit.
and he still is
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I don’t see a problem with kids being in a pub. One of the Wetherspoons I go to before match days will have a number of families in there having breakfast before making their way down to the game which is totally fine.

In proper pubs I don’t mind it either. Don’t get me wrong it might be annoying if they’re running around screaming or whatever but if it’s a pub that has a huge garden (and maybe a play area) then I can’t really complain. I’ll either put up with it or go elsewhere.
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I don’t see a problem with kids being in a pub. One of the Wetherspoons I go to before match days will have a number of families in there having breakfast before making their way down to the game which is totally fine.

In proper pubs I don’t mind it either. Don’t get me wrong it might be annoying if they’re running around screaming or whatever but if it’s a pub that has a huge garden (and maybe a play area) then I can’t really complain. I’ll either put up with it or go elsewhere.
What about an old man’s pub with no outdoor space whatsoever?
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My dad took me and my younger brother to the pub after football games from when I was 12/13 probably, sitting at a table with his friends was fairly mind numbing but I think it served two purposes: taught us how to behave in a bar and kept him and his friends from getting smashed after the football, so I think we all kept each other in check. I think you'd call that kind of pub a gastropub nowadays but don't remember it having that kind of label back then, was just their chosen pub for chatting ****e.
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My dad took me and my younger brother to the pub after football games from when I was 12/13 probably, sitting at a table with his friends was fairly mind numbing but I think it served two purposes: taught us how to behave in a bar and kept him and his friends from getting smashed after the football, so I think we all kept each other in check. I think you'd call that kind of pub a gastropub nowadays but don't remember it having that kind of label back then, was just their chosen pub for chatting ****e.
Not really talking about 12/13 onwards. I mean actual little kids.
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Not really talking about 12/13 onwards. I mean actual little kids.
My brother would have been 8/9 - I think any younger than that and you're asking for trouble probably
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I don't really think kids should be anywhere near pubs at all
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I don't really think kids should be anywhere near pubs at all

Completely agree

Sadly many grow up in them practically.. especially at weekends


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My brother would have been 8/9 - I think any younger than that and you're asking for trouble probably
And yet parents roll in their 5-year-olds.
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I don't really think kids should be anywhere near pubs at all
Bring them in if you’re really pressed for baby-sitting but don’t expect the adults there to suddenly have to modify their behaviour just so your kids aren’t offended. If you don’t want their impressionable ears to hear people swear, don’t take them to an adult environment that’s not clearly designated as family-friendly.
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My daughter is a nursery teacher in a primary school and she’s often said that some of her pupils aged around 4 yrs old routinely say phrases and swear words typical of pubs /bars .


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Because parents bring them in like it’s their prerogative to have their noisy brats running around and annoying people. Of course they’re going to pick up stuff they shouldn’t when they’re in environments that aren’t suitable for them or really meant for their ears.
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Make. It. STOP. Get your hyperactive brats a babysitter if they’re not capable of being relatively well-behaved.
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We might have Sunday lunch in the pub but the dining area is separate from the bar. I wouldn't take them into a pub otherwise. My parents never took us anywhere near a pub when we were kids either.
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We might have Sunday lunch in the pub but the dining area is separate from the bar. I wouldn't take them into a pub otherwise. My parents never took us anywhere near a pub when we were kids either.
Sounds like your parents were very sensible and considerate. And you were probably one of the good kids.
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We might have Sunday lunch in the pub but the dining area is separate from the bar. I wouldn't take them into a pub otherwise. My parents never took us anywhere near a pub when we were kids either.
Mine neither but then my Mum never drank in her life and my Dad rarely ever went to a pub - he got his alcohol at the Lodge

I remember often going to the golf club when they has acts on during the summer but we were always outside at the putting green. Otherwise never went near a pub and neither did any of my children when they were wee
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Im still getting over the fact that English people went to the pub on Christmas day - I could not believe that when I first lived in London
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Pubs are not really viable as businesses any more unless they're gastro pubs catering to families so I'm afraid your choice is either accept the kids in having their sausage and mash, or go and have a drink on your couch because the pub will have shut down.
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Pubs are not really viable as businesses any more unless they're gastro pubs catering to families so I'm afraid your choice is either accept the kids in having their sausage and mash, or go and have a drink on your couch because the pub will have shut down.
No brats should be in there past 7.30 pm, gastro or no gastro.
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No brats should be in there past 7.30 pm, gastro or no gastro.
Not viable. They'll just close.
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rules and then working practices evolve over a long time period. By working practices, i mean things like dining areas etc which develop to maximise profit for the pub and enjoyment for the customer. If you don't agree with a pubs policy on how it deals with kids, then you are not it's demographic and you should just move on because they already decided what works best for them
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