[WOMBAI]

Originally Posted by Dezzy

But not always, Victims of bullying will often remain silent on the matter at least until they reach breaking point, the point is if MMAI felt as bullied as everybody said she was then she probably wouldn't have been as theatrical in the leaving thread and stuff. She'd have just stopped coming here which leads me to believe she wanted attention.

Which everybody taking the moral high road has given her in abundance.

No victims of bullying don't always stick up for themselves - but many do! It isn't whether or not they stand up for themselves that defines whether they are being bullied or not!

I have seen much worse attention-seeking behaviour from Stephanie - and she wasn't treated like that!

[Tom4784]

Originally Posted by thebeast

Cyberbullying "involves the use of information and communication technologies to support deliberate, repeated, and hostile behavior by an individual or group, that is intended to harm others. -Bill Belsey" [1][clarification needed]

Some of you intended for MMi to leave the forums.. which is kind of bullyish intentions..

Other just joined in copying the avatar for a bit of fun but I would say some of you are guilty.

Fair point but my point has always been that more often then not there's ussually a link to real life involved. Some people might feel victimised on here but bullying is a different matter all together, Bullying is a repeated campaign with complete malice and to say that anything posted tonight even closely resembles that is an insult and undermines bullying totally.

[Stacey.]

Originally Posted by Jack_

I personally believe the pics are random ones from the internet.

In the past her posting style has been very inconsistent, and she did have a tendancy to appear more intelligent in some of her posts.

Quite a lot of the things she has posted are obvious attention seeking threads, at least to me anyway. So that's why I think she's a troll.

she looks 13, she acts 13, and posts in a 13 year old style, i would say.
i genuinely do believe she is who she says she is.

i post in different 'formats' and stuff from time to time.
and yeah she does, but a few people do that here!

her threads are aimed at everyone really - i dont think shes at all an attention-seeker.
she just says what comes firstly into her head.

[Z]

Originally Posted by andybigbro

Greg, This is not th eonly incident though. I have witnessed MM&I get victimised in the past.
They always poke fun at her.

I guess it depends on how you view things. I'm a laidback person, I see things in a laidback way. Factoring in MMAI's age, it would certainly feel like bullying to her and nobody could blame her for that; it's not nice to have a bandwagon against you - but at the same time, this specific incident really wasn't bullying in any way, in my eyes, it was people playing a wind up.

I wouldn't say I was being bullied though Jords, because I could click off the forum at any time - and did so, I left here for a while, came back and, thankfully, the ringleader of that particular gang had disappeared. I did so without a massive drama, just one day I logged off and never came back. I wasn't much older than MMAI at the time, either. People deal with these things in different ways; it ultimately comes down to how the member responds to the situation. I had NOBODY on my side when I was getting attacked every time I posted.

[Jack_]

Originally Posted by Stacey.x

she looks 13, she acts 13, and posts in a 13 year old style, i would say.
i genuinely do believe she is who she says she is.

That's the idea...she wants to come across as 13. But she has had a tendancy to appear older, if you ask me.

[Beastie]

Originally Posted by Dezzy

Fair point but my point has always been that more often then not there's ussually a link to real life involved. Some people might feel victimised on here but bullying is a different matter all together, Bullying is a repeated campaign with complete malice and to say that anything posted tonight even closely resembles that is an insult and undermines bullying totally.

Mmi has been ganged up before tonight though. Since she joined the forums members on here.. the ones who have been here longer have wanted MMi and other members to just fucking leave. Their last resort is obviously to mimick the member they want out and to press the X at the top right hand corner..

[Stacey.]

Originally Posted by Jack_

That's the idea...she wants to come across as 13. But she has had a tendancy to appear older, if you ask me.

but the pictures?

[andybigbro]

Originally Posted by Zee

I guess it depends on how you view things. I'm a laidback person, I see things in a laidback way. Factoring in MMAI's age, it would certainly feel like bullying to her and nobody could blame her for that; it's not nice to have a bandwagon against you - but at the same time, this specific incident really wasn't bullying in any way, in my eyes, it was people playing a wind up.

I wouldn't say I was being bullied though Jords, because I could click off the forum at any time - and did so, I left here for a while, came back and, thankfully, the ringleader of that particular gang had disappeared. I did so without a massive drama, just one day I logged off and never came back. I wasn't much older than MMAI at the time, either. People deal with these things in different ways; it ultimately comes down to how the member responds to the situation. I had NOBODY on my side when I was getting attacked every time I posted.

Surely if you have witnessed similar activity , you would feel sympathetic towards the situation. Thats exactly why I do.
I do believe that members on here poke fun at her to upset her and get pleasure out of it, which I'm sorry, its classed as bullying.

[Jack_]

Originally Posted by Stacey.x

but the pictures?

Fake if you ask me. The first two she posted looked different and people have asked her for a sign, haven't got one yet...

[WOMBAI]

Originally Posted by Zee

I guess it depends on how you view things. I'm a laidback person, I see things in a laidback way. Factoring in MMAI's age, it would certainly feel like bullying to her and nobody could blame her for that; it's not nice to have a bandwagon against you - but at the same time, this specific incident really wasn't bullying in any way, in my eyes, it was people playing a wind up.

I wouldn't say I was being bullied though Jords, because I could click off the forum at any time - and did so, I left here for a while, came back and, thankfully, the ringleader of that particular gang had disappeared. I did so without a massive drama, just one day I logged off and never came back. I wasn't much older than MMAI at the time, either. People deal with these things in different ways; it ultimately comes down to how the member responds to the situation. I had NOBODY on my side when I was getting attacked every time I posted.

But as Patrick said - why should you feel forced to switch off and leave the forum - you hadn't done anything wrong! The fact that you did - implies bullying! You dealt with it differently - but the way you were made to feel is the same! Bullying is about the behaviour of those ganging up on people - it isn't about how the 'victim' handles it!

[Stacey.]

Originally Posted by Jack_

Fake if you ask me. The first two she posted looked different and people have asked her for a sign, haven't got one yet...

Ive seen 4 of her, that all like completely the same i think!
oh, i never knew about that, but i think she would do one tbh.

[Jords]

Originally Posted by Stacey.x

Ive seen 4 of her, that all like completely the same i think!
oh, i never knew about that, but i think she would do one tbh.

I have her on msn and so do others, havnt been asked for cam or dirty chat yet so even if she isnt the girl shes claiming [I believe its her], shes not a peado!

[Stacey.]

Originally Posted by Jords

I have her on msn and so do others, havnt been asked for cam or dirty chat yet so even if she isnt the girl shes claiming [I believe its her], shes not a peado!

Oh aha
yeah, i think its really her, too.

[InOne]

Courtney, from the BB10 days, you've learnt to spell pretty quick lol

Heyyyyyyyyy, myyyy threaddddd voteeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee

Freddie for winnerrrrr

[Zippy]

I started the avatar mimmicking nonsense and I can say categorically that my intention wasn't to bully. Just mock. She had clearly copied Samys idea for an avatar but was denying it.

It was just silly fun. She seemed to take the joke well for a while. But Im not aware of all the other dynamics that go on here so maybe she felt picked on more than Im aware.

From what Ive seen of her, she'll bounce back pretty soon. I wouldn't call her innocent either.

[Stacey.]

Originally Posted by InOne

Courtney, from the BB10 days, you've learnt to spell pretty quick lol

Heyyyyyyyyy, myyyy threaddddd voteeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee

Freddie for winnerrrrr

yes, lmao.
i changed my style of typing really quickly, aha!

[Tom4784]

Originally Posted by thebeast

Mmi has been ganged up before tonight though. Since she joined the forums members on here.. the ones who have been here longer have wanted MMi and other members to just fucking leave. Their last resort is obviously to mimick the member they want out and to press the X at the top right hand corner..

You're reading too much into it, Nobody hates anyone enough on here just to go to all that trouble to get them to leave. You're making it sound like there's some sort of crime ring on tibb that wage campaigns to get rid of those they don't like.

[InOne]

Originally Posted by Stacey.x

yes, lmao.
i changed my style of typing really quickly, aha!

I suppose you had to really, it was a bit much lol

[Z]

I feel sorry for MMAI that she feels victimised, but I don't see it as bullying; perhaps that's just because of my outlook on bullying, but we're splitting hairs here - bullying is the kind of issue that one has a particular view on that won't be changed. I agree with Dezzy; I really don't think there are people out there to get her, just a lot of sarcastic wind up merchants who, due to their sheer number, turned an innocent thing into something that could reasonably be seen as bullying. I don't see it as bullying, some people agree with me, others don't - that's just how it goes I guess.

[_Seth]

Oh no, I must've missed some drama tonight.

[Zippy]

I think tone is everything. Keep it playful and not personal.

[Beastie]

Originally Posted by Zippy

I think tone is everything. Keep it playful and not personal.

This.

[_Seth]

Originally Posted by Zippy

I think tone is everything. Keep it playful and not personal.

True actually. I often have to put lol on the end of texts because it sounds too serious if I don't.

[WOMBAI]

Originally Posted by Zippy

I started the avatar mimmicking nonsense and I can say categorically that my intention wasn't to bully. Just mock. She had clearly copied Samys idea for an avatar but was denying it.

It was just silly fun. She seemed to take the joke well for a while. But Im not aware of all the other dynamics that go on here so maybe she felt picked on more than Im aware.

From what Ive seen of her, she'll bounce back pretty soon. I wouldn't call her innocent either.

Good post!

[arista]

Originally Posted by Shaun

*pushes dean in the dirt*

Sexy