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05-06-2018, 09:15 PM | #76 | |||
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If only religious folk would just get rid of their petty beliefs... seems to be the logic of some of those some who disagree with this position... but that is not seeing the bigger picture.
If for example a group went to a company and asked them to make a cake or an ad campaign for a KKK chapter or for an Anti-gay organization... I would understand completely if those folk refuse such a request on principled grounds. I mean when we talk about hate speech laws, aren't we really discussing discriminating what is and isn't hate speech?... Discrimination is not always bad thing. Sometimes it is just common sense... many companies would refuse this request, and I would refuse this request, absolutely... It doesn't feel good for the individual when the loudest message they hear from their environment is to "just get over" their life-long culture (and value) structures... but this is what politics now often ask of voters. Pick a side or find yourself standing alone... because we won't protect you if you stray from our political platform... For me, it's not so simple to just eliminate all discrimination in commercial services. When it involves individuals, we informing them that they must lay down and allow others to impose rules on how they practice their individual customs... this is why intellectual diversity is such a red herring now... because to employ such a heavy hand on custom, is not only authoritative, but eventually eliminates all individual discredition ... What's worse it's not even enough to say to those who are religious or declining on principled grounds, that they just disagree... but they also tend to declare that the other side has entered a moral danger zone and must be "handled" at all costs... but this is a heavy-handed and contradictory stance to take when we are supposed to be the society that considers individual rights to be the forefront of our government's structure... Anyway... we have to make room for individuals to live according to their culture and belief structures, with reason, in order to truly exist as a diverse society... Perhaps the middle ground here is that businesses that have this policy in place company-wide, must alsodeclare their small/big business as an entity with religious status (i.e. Christian)... and I think this is fair, as it would make it fairly transparent to patrons what requests would likely be unreasonable in that capacity. It would also eliminate the chance of reckless discriminatory practices from arbitrarily being enforced... since they would need legal status in order to "enforce" such a company policy. In the US, we have something like this for gun laws... there is a sign that the business must put up, it is specific penal code... one is they cannot enter with an open-carry weapon.. the other is they cannot enter those premises with any weapon period... if that sign is disregarded, that violation is considered automatically a felony... (which would bar them from owning at all) |
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05-06-2018, 09:16 PM | #77 | ||
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I doubt writing words on a cake for a customer would interfere with anyone's political or religious beliefs.
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05-06-2018, 09:18 PM | #78 | |||
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And there will be places that don't do bar mitzvah cakes , not every place is going to give you what you want but they'll always be other places that do. I just think people scream "discrimination" too much these days and it's not always as clear cut as that . By all means if abuse and hate is there then fair enough,but these bakeries in Indonesia & America both seem polite & apologetic. Last edited by GoldHeart; 05-06-2018 at 09:19 PM. |
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05-06-2018, 09:19 PM | #79 | ||
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05-06-2018, 09:22 PM | #80 | ||
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One of the new Will & Grace episodes was similar to this, the cake shop owners didn't wanna make a MAGA cake, so Grace bullied them into doing it. Their first attempt they defaced it to say IMAGAY haha
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05-06-2018, 09:22 PM | #81 | |||
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Don't say that to my Catholic grandmother ... it's not enough for some to just believe in name and spirit only... though that is how many people practice now with how increasingly secular our respective societies have become...
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05-06-2018, 09:25 PM | #82 | |||
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It wasn't so much that they don't "do Christmas cakes" they do cakes and also put customised writing on the cakes. They refused to write the words "Merry Christmas" because they are not Christian... or something. Incredibly petty, but also discriminatory. Writing that on a cake does not interfere with their own religion or their own right to believe whatever they want. When you're wanting to run a business, you follow the law. Quote:
There is no difference between a bar mitzvah cake and a birthday cake or a Christmas cake, other than maybe the decoration. If I went into a shop and asked for a 12 tier cake and they told me oh, actually we only bake cupcakes that's fair enough but to be told "Oh, yes we can write whatever message you want on your cake, but I'm not writing Congratulations Bob & Gary because that's gay" that's discriminatory. Quote:
It's like saying "Oh bloody hell I'm sick of hearing of abuse and sexism in the workplace, people are complaining about it far too much". Maybe look at the cause being the actual sexism and abuse in the workplace, rather than the people speaking up about it. If someone told a black guy "I'm ever so sorry but we don't allow black men on the premises of our shop. Could you please leave. Thank you ever so much. Have a nice day!" would we say oh that's not racism, they were apologetic and nice and polite. Ummm, no. Last edited by Marsh.; 05-06-2018 at 09:27 PM. |
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05-06-2018, 09:31 PM | #83 | |||
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Robert De Niro says he has barred Trump from all locations of his swanky restaurant chain that's beloved by the rich and famous http://www.businessinsider.com/trump...ro-says-2018-5 Last edited by Maru; 05-06-2018 at 09:32 PM. |
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05-06-2018, 09:31 PM | #84 | ||
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In fact that Indonesian company is pathetic.
Their religious beliefs prevent them from writing "Merry Christmas" on a cake but if you so wish you can have Merry Christmas added to a greetings card on our website. |
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05-06-2018, 09:33 PM | #85 | |||
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Niether did the Indonesia bakery . Nobody was kicked out of these shops unfairly . They just didn't do a particular cake for them . Last edited by GoldHeart; 05-06-2018 at 09:34 PM. |
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05-06-2018, 09:37 PM | #86 | ||
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I have no idea what religion this Indonesian bakery follow who are forbidden from writing Merry Christmas on a cake but can print it on cards. Whatever religion it is must take their icing very seriously. |
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07-06-2018, 09:14 AM | #87 | |||
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Interesting article on the Justice's words... may have to look into this in more detail later on as I'm not really following news much right now...
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07-06-2018, 09:20 AM | #88 | ||
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I don't know enough about this case to comment really, but the one in NI..I find very interesting as same sex marriage was not (IS not?) legal there when the whole thing kicked off. So the baker was refusing to bake a message that was supporting something that was not legal, basically. However at the same time, its not legal to discriminate against gay people. So to me, this is a huge conflict of laws? Maybe should just push through same sex marriage really
I am not sure what my opinion is on refusing to put certain messages on cakes. On the one hand, you are there to fulfill the customers request. On the other hand, customers can go elsewhere if you do not wish to serve exactly what they want. I do not see what the issue is in putting a message on that you disagree with BUT I also cannot see anyone objecting if (for example) a Muslim bakery refused to bake a cake that said something about how much the buyer loves pork. Or even, a bakery owned by anyone of a different religion to Christianity refused to bake a same sex marriage cake (and especially if same sex marriage was not legal where the bakery actually was) Sex is a protected characteristic right, but if I went and asked for a cake that said that women are better than men or vice versa, and the bakery refused..said they would make a cake but not with that message on..it would be annoying but I can't see that its breaking the law? And people would think I was a bit of a twat if I tried to get them done for that. IF however, they completely refused to serve me because I am a woman, that would be wrong in my eyes. I still would not take them to court, as whats the point, but I am sure most would support me if I did take it further than just muttering 'arseholes' and stropping out. In short, I am kind of conflicted on it all. Last edited by Vicky.; 07-06-2018 at 09:22 AM. |
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